Marriage is honourable


Marriage is honourable

Psalm 68:6 KJV
God setteth the solitary in families: he bringeth out those which are bound with chains: but the rebellious dwell in a dry land .

God is the ‘setter’ of solitary in the family. If you’re

genuine sons and daughters of God; that means your marital destiny isn’t far from  being blissful. Marriage is honourable; It’s a good thing. The word of God says, He that findeth a wife find a good thing; two are better than one, it isn’t good for a man to be alone. A tension free (hitch free) marriage answers to God’s favour.

Proverbs 18:22 KJV
Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing , and obtaineth favour of the Lord .

Genesis 2:18 KJV
And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.

Remember, you’re what you think; if you think that marriage is a relationship between cat and rat (as a bachelor) that is how it’s going to be when you’re married.

Proverbs 23:7 KJV
For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he: Eat and drink, saith he to thee; but his heart is not with thee.

If Jesus Christ could manage His relationship with the twelve disciples without a fight; I don’t see any reason why a marriage of a believer  should be filled with incessant arguments and fighting. If I don’t fight as a bachelor; marriage should be able to take me far away from it.

Most good things are not beautiful most beautiful things are

Life is a choice; a marriage without Christ will be full of crises. Choose wisely today! Never choose to marry a  guy or a lady just because of his or her beauty. Beauty without wisdom is destruction. Be wise!!

In our culture, many men who are controlled by their parents; whatever their mother says is the final: This has been the reason why many marriages are unsettled today. He is an adult; but he can’t make decision of his own because he lacks authority over the issues of life.

Listen to me: If you choose not to abide in Christ today; you will be gathered by people like firewood and casted into the fire for destruction (you will be mishandled by fellows humans).

John 15:5-6 KJV
I am the vine, ye are the branches: He that abideth in me, and I in him, the same bringeth forth much fruit: for without me ye can do nothing. [6] If a man abide not in me, he is cast forth as a branch, and is withered; and men gather them, and cast them into the fire, and they are burned.

Finally, secured you marriage in Christ; God’s principles are the best. Let the word of God be the yardstick of measurement. By so doing, your marriage will be free from any form  pressure and attack.

 

 

Blissful Marriage


I understood from the scripture that I will have a blissful marriage

Though, I’m not yet married. But, I already understood from the scripture that marriage is honourable, two are better than one; it is not good for a man to be alone.

“And the lord said, it is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.” Gen.22:18.

“Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour.”Ecc.4:9

If I don’t fight as a bachelor, marriage should take me far from it. The scripture has taught me that marriage is a good thing and that those who serve God can’t lack any good thing.

” Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the lord.” Prov.18:22.

The young lions do lack, and suffer  hunger hunger: but they that seek the lord shall not want any good thing.“PS.34:10

As  bachelors and spinsters, many saw marriage as a relationship between cat and rat and it came to be when they got married.

In the spirit realm, any thought you allow to hold  grip on you is regarded accomplished. It won’t be soon enough before it begin to manifest in the reality.

As he thinketh in his heart so he is.” Prov.23:7

I already understood from the scripture that I’ll have a blissful marriage, a tension free marriage. The reason is that marital settlement answers to God’s favour and I can’t serve God and lack God’s favour.

And moreover, my father can’t be the one who set the solitary in families and be a victim of marital unsettlement.

“God setteth solitary in families: he bringeth out those which are bound with chains: but and the rebellious dwell in a dry land.” PS.68:6

Listen to me: don’t be anxious of getting married. Marriage is a lifetime institution. Be ready and mature before you go into it.

Acquired knowledge enough for it. Get books on marriage, there are keys to a marital settlement in such books. Knowledge is the key to freedom. It is priceless.

After the order of Mat.6:33, focus on the pursuit of God’s kingdom and your God’s ordained spouse will locate and connect with you.

Warnings!

  • Don’t marry someone who lack passion for the things of God.
  • Don’t marry a lady just because of her beauty. Most beautiful things are not good things. And, most good things are not beautiful.
  • Don’t marry a man just because of money.
  • Don’t be too anxious to marry.
  • Don’t marry a guy who ask you to sleep with him before marriage. Sleeping with him does mean that he will marry you. He will hate you after the sex.
  • Don’t marry an unintelligent lady. As she will not be fit to handle home issues.
  • Don’t marry a man that will beat you, i.e, smokers, drug abusers, drunkards, etc.
  • Don’t marry someone because you are John and she is Janet
  • Don’t marry a prayer lazy lady.
  • Don’t marry a man who can’t express his feelings.
  • Don’t marry a man who has no work. Or who is not ready to work.
  • Don’t select your wife from club. Church is the most preferred place.

Finally, ask God for direction, he will show you the path to follow.

Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according the power that worketh in us.”  Eph.3:20